Return to Mexico

IMG_2023MANZANILLO, Nov. 12, 2018 — First: acknowledging that son Dexter and Sara Brown are right in the middle of their last of six performances of the very successful run of Great Falls, the Lee Blessing play they are premiering in New York City. Even from afar we can feel the excitement. (Ed. Note – The limited run of Great Falls has just wrapped up to much acclaim.)

IMG_2021These are the views from our balcony. We are chuckling over this strange old place: no wifi except in the lobby and then not free, ice is still not here though we called for it half an hour ago. Our bed is headed by a giant cockleshell which we’ve found will light up. But from our balcony here’s what you see. And we’re glad to be safely here.

We were walking along our corridor on the way to supper, then found the dining room was closed until 7, so we went back and ate leftovers and hard-boiled eggs from home and a PBJ sandwich.

Thanks to all for birthday messages! We had a good day.

image1 (4)Soon we head for Melaque, which may appear on maps as San Patricio. The home of our lifelong friend Stephen Bayne III is called Casa Tortuga, and it has a big turtle on the outside wall.

Hotter here today. Coming up to lunch a lot of people moiling around in the lobby, which is where I have to go to do wifi.

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Canadian Thanksgiving

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LETHBRIDGE, Alberta — The prediction is it will be snowing by 5. Our holiday up here is for the Canadian Thanksgiving. We drove over across the river this morning and found our way down to the bottoms where I took the panoramic of the river. At the far right of that is the longest train trestle in North America. Milkweed clumps here and there, biggest poplar/cottonwood leaves. The little red ones are on a shrubby thing.IMG_1929

I’m relieved not to be driving north into the mountains tomorrow. They could cancel our reservation at Baker Mt. Lodge without charging. It’s disappointing not to see that but there it is. Not possible at this age to say “another time!”

I think you’ll all appreciate the fun of this exchange with a long-ago student of Tom’s, who somehow found our email address. He is Willard McCarty, Professor emeritus, Department of Digital Humanities, King’s College London; Adjunct Professor, Western Sydney University; Editor, Interdisciplinary Science Reviews.

Dear Professor Buell,

Might it be that long ago, during the first half of the 1970s, that you taught me the basics of doing research in an MA-level course at Portland State University and later served as one of my examiners for the degree, possibly with Georgia Crampton?

If you’re the person I am thinking of, I owe you an enormous debt for the good research habits you insisted I acquire. In fact I acquired them, and have been practising them for more than 40 years. Since I try, whenever memory serves up such an indebtedness, to pay my intellectual debts, I am writing to you to say thank you. Just now, reading a book on the history of experimental science for a paper I am writing for a workshop at Cambridge, you, or that person, came to mind as I carefully noted down the source and page number of a note from that book. Whenever (though seldom it is) I speak of my MA at PSU, I usually remark that your course (if you’re the right one) was the only one I can remember, and the only one worth remembering, though that may be rather unfair to the forgotten.

All the best with your art, your writings, your travels.

Yours,
W

To which we responded:

Dear Professor McCarty, This is Tom’s wife writing. It will give Tom such pleasure to read your letter! He was just saying last week, as we were reading the PSU magazine, how proud he was of having taught there, how it continues to serve a population well.

Georgia Crampton is still alive, too, and we see her now and then, mostly at memorial services which is a little sad but natural.

We get only a glimpse into your life through your words and the information you put at the end of your letter, and we thank you.

You must have come on our name somewhere online. You can go to tcbuell.com and to joanstrongbuell.blog, if you haven’t already, and learn more that will reassure you that you have the right person.

Yours,
Joan

And he responded:

Dear Joan,

I am so glad that the chain of associations which led to me writing Tom, then receiving your reply, was triggered this morning by making notes — in a different medium than I used when I learned from Tom how to do it properly back in the 70s, but I do it still with the same sense of scholarly craftsmanship. Twenty years in Canada, at Toronto for the PhD with Northrop Frye, and now, so far, 22 years as a Londoner, separate me from Portland and the Pacific Northwest, but I’m still partially of that place. Your blog and Tom’s page calls all that Pacific Northwestitude to mind. The two of you must not only have done things right (as right as we can) but also sustained the right-doing for an admirably long time — it shows in the photo at https://joanstrongbuell.blog/. Something more for me to emulate.

On another occasion I’d be glad to unleash a bit more of the autobiographical if you and Tom would find it pleasing. For now I must turn to Rheinberger’s Toward a History of Epistemic Things (1997) for a commentary on a comment made by the wonderful geneticist François Jacob in his autobiography, The Statue Within (1995/1987): “What mattered more than the answers”, he recalls from his first work at the Pasteur Institute, “were the questions and how they were formulated; for in the best of cases, the answer led to new questions. It was a system for concocting expectation; a machine for making the future. For me this world of questions and the provisional, this chase after an answer that was always put off to the next day, all that was euphoric. I lived in the future. I always waited for the result of tomorrow. I had turned my anxiety into my profession.” (pp. 8-9)

Yours,
W

Our son Dexter refers to this kind of note as “The Teaching Dividend.”

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The Power of Positive Imagery

IMG_1904It’s exciting that James Allison has won the Nobel Prize in Medicine. His work in immunotherapy is crucial in proving to the world that the body has ways in itself to stay healthy, and beyond that, to destroy unhealthy tissue when that runs rampant.

What can the individual do with deliberate use of mental images to influence what the body is doing? (These pictures have no significance. They are just incidental, things I’ve enjoyed in the last few weeks.)image1 (3)

Learning more from Laney Coulter, who teaches loving kindness hypnosis, about how the subconscious can be influenced by events, and in turn influences events, I feel confirmed in my beginning understanding of how autoimmune disease and psychogenic disabilities function.

I probably won’t live long enough to see the widespread marrying of Allison’s immunotherapy with the use of mental imagery, but I am glad to know more about how it works.

IMG_1898Now we’re off on an adventure to the Canadian Rockies.

From getting our nice red car at 8:10 AM in Whitefish, Montana, along the Flathead River, Logan Pass closed, so around the bottom edge of Glacier Park and up the East side, to our Outpost Motel in Cardston, Alberta. They had a blizzard two days ago, unusually early, and we are very glad we missed it.

One very large dead black cow by the roadside. It must have been a whiteout where even she couldn’t be seen.IMG_1905

Not often you see such a sharp contrast within an hour, crossing the Continental Divide.

We learned that Cardston is the home of George Woolf, one of Seabiscuit’s main jockeys. There’s a statue at the Remington Carriage Museum behind the grocery store.

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Summer Life on Top of the Hill

38814286_921145768073065_5985610820506091520_nWell, it worked. I’ve been pruning that Pink Star Magnolia for 20 minutes, and not a sign of a hornet. After we got the HALT! people in, the day before the wedding, to take out a BIG hornet’s nest, they’d started a new nest, busy as ever, just as angry when we went near. So last night at 3 a.m., I went out and sprayed Raid into the entry hole. Sorry hornets, but this is OUR croquet court, not yours. I’ll finish pruning later when the sun’s off it again.

Highs in the mid-90s for the next couple of days. We have several fans and use one in the evening to keep air moving in our sleeping room before bed. But breeze comes down through the woods all day. I slept fine downstairs before getting up to spray the hornets.

Looking through our collection of digitized photos for a picture of our friend Stephen Bayne’s Casa Tortuga, in Melaque, Mexico, and not being very adept at searching, I found a treasure – a picture of our great-grandson Noah, who is 4 1/2 now. And another one of him with other children in Westport, NY.38842019_921028568084785_5596218159053930496_n

Oh!! Young Tom in hockey gear. Tom Dad was coaching a league team jointly with Hank Bergman. Haven’t yet found Melaque.

38801315_921035974750711_3095374147019079680_nWe picked ripe figs from a branch overhanging a sidewalk and I made this fig tart, which I was trying to describe to someone the other day.38678675_921032118084430_6727412961708605440_n

I also found a copy of an article I wrote for Oncology Nursing Forum in 1980 about my experience volunteering at St. Christopher’s Hospice in London the year before. It’s posted on our website. You can read it by clicking HERE.

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The Marriage of True Minds

image1 (1)It will be almost impossible to encompass the last few days in any description, series of photos, sounds. This was just one moment as Tom and Jamie were marrying each other. Their children were all there, their brothers and sisters, though only some of Jamie’s, and nieces and nephews, a few cousins. Noah and Lily, our great-grandchildren, stretched the age range to four and two. Tom and I had written what we planned to say. Tom and Jamie, not showing their vows to each other, had written very beautiful more-than-statements of their love and intentions.

weddingTJBoothAnd so the weekend is done. There were two evening parties, one Friday at Hester and Len’s, one after the wedding at Jamie and Tom’s. We provided a wedding lunch, and Eve Epstein and Ron Burian hosted a brunch on Sunday.

The flowers Virginia Maxam and I arranged continue to bloom, the lilies open, Emily and the children are back in Brooklyn.

IMG_1814Blessings.

 

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A View in the Early Morning

35747326_869932896527686_535398442592108544_nA view in early morning. The Fever Few has flourished. I got a start of it in the 50’s from Mrs Jaaden’s garden near the old cabin in Kingston WA, where we used to spend some summers, and it must have come down with us from married graduate student housing in Seattle. It volunteers wherever it can find a foot-hold.

35682274_869932949861014_4674083436447662080_nThe claw-footed bathtub on the porch has been languishing, dead leaves in the bottom, and last week I filled it with blooming plants that look happy.

The fish we’ve newly acquired have learned that it’s OK to swim right to the top, that they’ll find food there. For the first few days they lurked at the very bottom.

35423098_869933013194341_1641224234933944320_nHester’s Father’s Day card to Tom, appropriately a tiny seahorse admiring her Dad, is in the foreground. This Dad has just been “graduated” from Hospice care back to Medicare, he’s so much stronger: it was a change we anticipated, and we can go back when we need to. We need to keep the hospital bed, and hope that can be arranged without our having to rent one.

Trying to keep up a life outside the house and the daily routines, I went on Tuesdays in April and May, when Lorna was here, to take a basket-making class. It was taught at the Multnomah Arts Center by a young woman who was 1/16th Native American, remembered her grandmother and had learned the craft from family members.

image1I will always remember the feel of the wet cedar strips and how the raffia worked in differently. And when you were doing the finishing off, it helped to hear the sequence of the directions in your head: “Wrap your bundle, fold diagonally, reach under, pull down and up, feel it thunk into place.”

IMG_0460The form we used was a 2×6 block of wood. You can see the change in shape that occurred when I took the block out.

The teacher, Stephanie, had traditional tattoos on her chin, and invited us to photograph a sheet of directions so we could do other baskets at home.

35508625_870214136499562_1919803785211805696_nThe Lime trees are in bloom by the Walgreens parking lot at 21st and West Burnside…as in Unter den Linden …one of the sweetest smells in flower-dom.

IMG_0515On Sunday we did go to the 10:00 service, left after communion, drove upriver, and had lunch in the Walking Man pub in Stevenson. The only time we’ve been here before, it was pouring rain.

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Subject: Bless you for that dear letter

unnamed (43)I’m sitting here knitting, thinking of the people who have written and called. Many people think that ”Hospice Care” means a person is imminently dying, but that kind of late referral is only one reason.

Tom is still here, and the Hospice support is wonderful. I asked for it early, getting a hospital bed, a weekly nurse visit, twice-a-week bath aide, so I don’t get overwhelmed, and it really does make a difference. We go to bed and sleep very early. I can get 8-9 hours sleep, and then have the quiet hours from 4-7 AM all by myself.

Hester and Len came for supper last night. Today we are going to Benihana for lunch, partly to be out of the way while Aurelia cleans. Tom, (son) Ed Carpenter, Bets Stover, Virny Maxam, several other friends plus an agency person eight hours a week, come in and take over so I can go off. And Tom can be on his own when he’s just napping or sitting in his chair.

unnamed (42)He’s very much himself and has been since the awful “hospital psychosis” wore off. So the days go on. The broken dogwood branch was just hanging on by enough of a thread that when I cut pieces off, they went and bloomed, bravely.

From May 3 – This bed of Rue

IMG_1710There’s something about a wild flower, in the shade out back by the trash shed, coming up year after year, that’s heartening. I don’t know where I found it, but I put it in there probably in the late ‘60’s.

We have another week of sun starting. The chard I planted along with several other sets of seeds has germinated already. Tom is doing a bunch of exercises as I write, ones he made up himself that he can do in his rocking-chair.

New patterns turn up. One of them for me is going down the hill to QFC at 6:30 or 7, before Tom wakes up, doing a shopping, getting a coffee, and sitting for a while doing my Sudoku, enjoying the anonymity, watching people start their day.image1 (2)

One of our helpers yesterday brought Tennyson’s Ulysses to read aloud to Tom. I’ve put it in my journal so I won’t lose it and can read it to him myself later.

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